husband and I are having a "disagreemnt" about something. We got a little loud about it, which is really unusual for us. Anyway, difficult child is mad at me for being mad at is father and decided that he was not going to eat any food that I made for dinner until I was "nice to dad". I told him that was his choice and if he chose not the eat, not my problem. His response? "If you loved me you would care that I don't want to eat your dinner." That loud sound you hear is me banging my head against a brick wall.