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difficult child wants to move back with bio family at 18..long
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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 19766" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>difficult child's say alot of things to yank our chains. They know our fears and will turn them around on us. That being said I want to share something about my difficult child.</p><p></p><p>His biodad is a druguser\on and off for yrs.</p><p>I left him and raised my kids on my own so they wouldn't be around the drug use.</p><p>My biggest fear was my son seeking him out and biodad exposing him to drugs.</p><p>Well, my son is 18. Last yr he found his dad and moved in with him. It took almost a yr of going back and forth until my difficult child finally said they are crazy I can't go back there! </p><p></p><p>What I found was when I finally realized it was out of my control and I let go, he left him alone on his own.</p><p>Sometimes they just have to see for themselves, he always put his dad on such a pedastal regardless of the fact that he was never in his life, never acknowledged b-day, christmas, if they were fed, warm, nothing.</p><p></p><p>So I wanted to send you some hope, and just remember that he knows your weaknesses and fears. I did not realize that for a long time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 19766, member: 2389"] difficult child's say alot of things to yank our chains. They know our fears and will turn them around on us. That being said I want to share something about my difficult child. His biodad is a druguser\on and off for yrs. I left him and raised my kids on my own so they wouldn't be around the drug use. My biggest fear was my son seeking him out and biodad exposing him to drugs. Well, my son is 18. Last yr he found his dad and moved in with him. It took almost a yr of going back and forth until my difficult child finally said they are crazy I can't go back there! What I found was when I finally realized it was out of my control and I let go, he left him alone on his own. Sometimes they just have to see for themselves, he always put his dad on such a pedastal regardless of the fact that he was never in his life, never acknowledged b-day, christmas, if they were fed, warm, nothing. So I wanted to send you some hope, and just remember that he knows your weaknesses and fears. I did not realize that for a long time. [/QUOTE]
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