Things have been quiet here. difficult child is still not working. He's living off the money he got from trading the vehicle bio dad gave him for a cheaper one. He calls or messages me about every 4-5 days. I haven't seen him in two weeks. He wants to return to college next month but I'm refusing to release his college fund since he isn't working. Laying around all day doesn't make me believe he is ready to pass classes. Duhhh Anyhow, difficult child borrowed my crutches in May when he fell off his skateboard. I hurt my foot. Messaged him saying I was being referred to an Ortho. Bone broken. Need my crutches. He responded to tell me he would get them when "I get the rest of my stuff from my old place. Trust me, I'm not getting them any sooner or later based on these things. You can find someone to borrow some from." One more good reminder of who he really is. Didn't ask how I was, etc. it's always all about him. Personally, I think he is hateful to the point of being abusive. Thankfully, the Ortho put me in a boot so I didn't need them after all. Not that difficult child cares.