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Difficulties with grown up daughter. Advice please.
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<blockquote data-quote="Albatross" data-source="post: 704841" data-attributes="member: 17720"><p>I ditto what SWOT said. If you only hear from her when she wants something, that is not good. If she makes demands on you when you are in the emergency room, that is also not good. But is here is a middle ground between the relationship being dead and her not controlling you? Maybe it doesn't have to be one or the other. For example, if you can't pay the car insurance, what would happen if you gave her notice that you will no longer pay it as of X date? What would happen if you told her that her nana and you have very different versions of the truth and you won't be defending yourself against nana's accusations?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Albatross, post: 704841, member: 17720"] I ditto what SWOT said. If you only hear from her when she wants something, that is not good. If she makes demands on you when you are in the emergency room, that is also not good. But is here is a middle ground between the relationship being dead and her not controlling you? Maybe it doesn't have to be one or the other. For example, if you can't pay the car insurance, what would happen if you gave her notice that you will no longer pay it as of X date? What would happen if you told her that her nana and you have very different versions of the truth and you won't be defending yourself against nana's accusations? [/QUOTE]
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