I am a divorced single parent living with my 25 year old son who is bipolar. He was hospitalized when he was 19 when he received this diagnosis. He is very intelligent & attended college for several years but did not graduate. He is currently unemployed & refuses to take medication or attend counseling sessions. He had a wonderful male therapist for several years but he was non-compliant & he did not follow his advice. I need to relocate soon for my job. My son does not want to come with me but I need to go for both economic & personal reasons. He constantly blames me for all his problems. My ex-husband has no contact with him or myself. I want him to be independent & live on his own or with a friend. However, he is very resistant to this suggestion & does not seem to understand that I must relocate. I don't know what do.