Ahhhh here I was thinking the call would be telling me that someone had passed away and we all needed to get together for the funeral. Nope. Or would it be something more horrific like something happened to one of the two daughters that she already isn't raising now? You remember the ones that her Mother (my friend) is raising? Ages 8 and 5. Both Girls. Nope. Or would it be to tell me maybe that she's finally found the man of her dreams, and is getting her own place, won the lotto, getting married, got a degree, has gotten her life together, gotten over her extreme case of Cranialrectalidis? Wants to look me in the eyes after three long years of being a total b double o b boob? Nope. Nah instead it was my friend, her Mother calling me. Calling to say that she had just gotten out of the hospital because she was admitted two days ago with chest pains from [[[[[stress]]]]]] and why prey-tell the stress? What could dim-wit have done this time? Lets review - two miscarriages, a live birth that died, a premie so tiny she fit in the crook of my arm, jail time, jail time, jail time, drugs, Mom YOU raise her, jail time, another premie so tiny her foot fit on my thumb, OMW she's so tiny, and this time - she said her Mom could HAVE the baby - she never made a connection with it. Jail time for stalking. Finally finished HS, finally went to college, FINALLY got an Associates, FINALLY got a job, STILL can't live on her own, but her Mom gives her a place to stay and she TRASHES it, moves out, moves in with a guy, he gives her the world, loves both the girls, and she calls that show about the house being haunted and has them come there and video her house and gets the little girls to lie about the ghosts in the house (attention seeking at it's best) then trashes THAT house, moves back in with her Mother - and leaves the kids there and runs around all hours of the night for her MOTHER to raise - and finally at 30 years old - working on her BA - trashing her Mothers house, having a job - and NOT on any public assistance for the first time in her life? What does dimwhit do? You betcha - 6 weeks along with TWINS......and when my friend told her to get an abortion because she is sick and tired of raising this womans kids? The woman andher Aunts jumped her mess so badly? She had a heart attack. Gosh you gotta love family. So now? She's been reduced to finding a place to live because the daughter told her - SHE needs the bigger bedroom (hers) for herself and the babies - and figures(oh this is classic) the Mom can make the pantry into a closet for herself and she can get a sleeper sofa OR (this is even better) just move out or move in with that guy she's been seeing. My friend was like WHAT GUY I've been seeing? The one I play cards with once a month? That has cancer, lives with HIS daughters? And she said YEAH - just move in with him. Problem solved. Oh and the house that dimwit wants her to move out of? Not hers....lol. They all live with the youngest sister of my friend. Oh brother ----and NOW she gets why I washed my hands of nitwit girl 3 years ago and don't send cards for the ....oops I mean MY Grandkids. finger quote un finger quote. ......But uh - Please call Momma Star and tell her she's going to be a Grandma again. PHOOEY! I asked my friend if she was ready to raise FOUR kids and she said - I'm moving. I just laughed - her family OWNS her. This will NEVER end. And adoption? Oh are you kidding? My friend said twit stated "If it were one baby and another girl? Maybe, but Momma I'm having TWINS - I've always WANTED twins." Oh I see..Like it's two rings in the bottom of a cracker jack box or something. My thought, although I said nothing was - WHAT if it's twin GIRLS? She's hoping for boys....but if it's twin girls? My friend said nothing but I can imagine my friend is praying for twin girls so TWIT will be so depressed at birth she agrees to adopt them out and not keep them. how very sad is that. I think she just went from difficult child to Twit to Numbskull. I usually don't feel sorry for my friend, because I largely think she's enabled a lot of this, but this is such an enmeshed situation and both her sisters, and her Mother and the entire family are all FOR dimwit and against friend who says "I'm already raising the other two, I'm not raising the new ones." I just felt so bad for her having a literal heart attack over the news." OH and since this is a high risk pregnancy? She laughed and said - OH and guess who will be in bed in about three weeks for the rest of her pregnancy for my ENTIRE Summer? (shes a bus-driver and was looking forward to just her and the girls at home for fun things with Mom at work) UGH.