DDD
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Much to my surprise it actually appears that difficult child#1 "may" be approved on his Disability appeal. I did not encourage him to pursue it but he hired a law firm and maybe it is going to be "a go". I'm not sure how much the check will be IF he gets it but it will be sizable. Likely twenty grand plus or minus.
Seems like some of you shared a few years ago that there are stipulations on spending the money. He is ADHD with a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) so there's no telling how much I can influence his choices. GFGmom will be looking to get back "all she's spent on him"...no doubt.
I know he will want a newer car as his is junky. husband and I were thinking that he should try to buy a home so he wouldn't have to move around renting. Yeah I know that sometimes a financial guardian is named and one of the experts added to his report "difficult child would not be capable of handling his finances." difficult child will absolutely fight to the death to "handle HIS money".
Any input? DDD
Seems like some of you shared a few years ago that there are stipulations on spending the money. He is ADHD with a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) so there's no telling how much I can influence his choices. GFGmom will be looking to get back "all she's spent on him"...no doubt.
I know he will want a newer car as his is junky. husband and I were thinking that he should try to buy a home so he wouldn't have to move around renting. Yeah I know that sometimes a financial guardian is named and one of the experts added to his report "difficult child would not be capable of handling his finances." difficult child will absolutely fight to the death to "handle HIS money".
Any input? DDD