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<blockquote data-quote="Hopeful97" data-source="post: 680563" data-attributes="member: 19678"><p>Leafy,</p><p></p><p>I hope you are doing well. I have been thinking about you.</p><p></p><p>Son has been contacting me more, now he seems like he may be concerned rather than indifferent - just have to remember our d c s care in their own ways. He called today allegedly to say he was worried about me and loved me. Then he proceeded to tell me about a break up and other chaos and drama. I am sooooooo GLAD that I don't have to deal with that crap. Then he starts with what are you doing right now, I say I have niece over, then what about later, I respond I will be pretty tied up today. Classic it took a little longer time with more frequent contact but I know he was hinting around for a ride, money or something. Well he is in for big surprise when he does ask ,everyone and the response is no or I cannot. That boat has sailed and will not be back in port for a very long time. I am sure that some kind of consequences are coming for d c for missed court dates and various charges. He talked a little about it I mostly listened from what I gather something is inevitable but that is not a surprise. We believe he is still involved I very dangerous activities and with very dangerous people so contact is going to have to mostly be via phone or internet.</p><p></p><p>I still have this wonderful, beyond human comprehension , peace. There have been a few dips but for the most part it is all good.</p><p></p><p>I can say that I do not really feel worried about son just concerned . I am sure that this also will go back and forth. I consider where I am at now on this portion of my journey with d c to be "slow" for lack of a better term. As soon as he needs a ride, money, etc., which I can tell is coming and he gets another no it will go back to no contact. I am sure I will end up ending the communication because of his reaction to "no". I know you all can relate, just have to get it out. It is frustrating but now through my progress via God, this site and Ala Non, I have learned so much and continue to do so, I have learned enough to "pull back " (for lack of a better term) and try to take care of me.</p><p></p><p>Thank you all for listening.</p><p></p><p>Huge Hugs</p><p>Hopeful</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopeful97, post: 680563, member: 19678"] Leafy, I hope you are doing well. I have been thinking about you. Son has been contacting me more, now he seems like he may be concerned rather than indifferent - just have to remember our d c s care in their own ways. He called today allegedly to say he was worried about me and loved me. Then he proceeded to tell me about a break up and other chaos and drama. I am sooooooo GLAD that I don't have to deal with that crap. Then he starts with what are you doing right now, I say I have niece over, then what about later, I respond I will be pretty tied up today. Classic it took a little longer time with more frequent contact but I know he was hinting around for a ride, money or something. Well he is in for big surprise when he does ask ,everyone and the response is no or I cannot. That boat has sailed and will not be back in port for a very long time. I am sure that some kind of consequences are coming for d c for missed court dates and various charges. He talked a little about it I mostly listened from what I gather something is inevitable but that is not a surprise. We believe he is still involved I very dangerous activities and with very dangerous people so contact is going to have to mostly be via phone or internet. I still have this wonderful, beyond human comprehension , peace. There have been a few dips but for the most part it is all good. I can say that I do not really feel worried about son just concerned . I am sure that this also will go back and forth. I consider where I am at now on this portion of my journey with d c to be "slow" for lack of a better term. As soon as he needs a ride, money, etc., which I can tell is coming and he gets another no it will go back to no contact. I am sure I will end up ending the communication because of his reaction to "no". I know you all can relate, just have to get it out. It is frustrating but now through my progress via God, this site and Ala Non, I have learned so much and continue to do so, I have learned enough to "pull back " (for lack of a better term) and try to take care of me. Thank you all for listening. Huge Hugs Hopeful [/QUOTE]
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