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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 52131" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Alison,</p><p></p><p>Your difficult child is 8 - you do have some ability to control (via holds, if necessary) his actions. Additionally, I'd lay it on the line; this is the plan. We're going to have to follow the plan for you to get back to your "real" school. Start laying down the idea that difficult children choices have repercussions. The idea of responsible & respectful choices.</p><p></p><p>The tweedles were both home at 8; I remember them trying to control every situation. kt & wm were both informed that at 8 years of age, they didn't have the experience or wisdom to make these decisions - period. Parents make choices of this nature for their children & they needed to back down. </p><p></p><p>Alison, other than county provided services I really don't know how you would get experienced, background checked services in the home. As you know, we have a plethora of services here for kt. It's been a journey to get & receive these services & it has been a godsend.</p><p></p><p>PCAs are used daily for behaviorial redirection & help in crisis moments. When times are calm there are teaching moments - from reading to help with household chores.</p><p></p><p>Good luck at your meeting today. Will be keeping my fingers crossed for you today.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 52131, member: 393"] Alison, Your difficult child is 8 - you do have some ability to control (via holds, if necessary) his actions. Additionally, I'd lay it on the line; this is the plan. We're going to have to follow the plan for you to get back to your "real" school. Start laying down the idea that difficult children choices have repercussions. The idea of responsible & respectful choices. The tweedles were both home at 8; I remember them trying to control every situation. kt & wm were both informed that at 8 years of age, they didn't have the experience or wisdom to make these decisions - period. Parents make choices of this nature for their children & they needed to back down. Alison, other than county provided services I really don't know how you would get experienced, background checked services in the home. As you know, we have a plethora of services here for kt. It's been a journey to get & receive these services & it has been a godsend. PCAs are used daily for behaviorial redirection & help in crisis moments. When times are calm there are teaching moments - from reading to help with household chores. Good luck at your meeting today. Will be keeping my fingers crossed for you today. [/QUOTE]
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