Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Disgusted
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 31896" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Daisylover</div><div class="ubbcode-body"></p><p></p><p>I'm beginning to wonder if he is using her disorders as a means of degradation and control. All he has to do is hint that he doesn't want to be with her anymore and she crumbles. She'll admit fault when there is nothing to admit </div></div></p><p></p><p></p><p> <span style='font-size: 14pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #663366"> <em>lisa, this is exactly what i was thinking as i read your post....and not for the first time actually.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>i do think he is using her illness against her. honestly, i consider that abusive. emotional abuse. they seem to be rather toxic for each other. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>i don't know how/if you can/should approach N about this....but i think i'd be forced to since this has happened repeatedly. either he needs to get a handle on this or they need to split. at least if it was my daughter involved that's what i'd be counselling her to do.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>i have to say you have amazing control. i would have had a very difficult time staying out of that whole scene. would have had to chew my tongue bloody!</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>kris </em> </span> </span> </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 31896, member: 74"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Daisylover</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> I'm beginning to wonder if he is using her disorders as a means of degradation and control. All he has to do is hint that he doesn't want to be with her anymore and she crumbles. She'll admit fault when there is nothing to admit </div></div> <span style='font-size: 14pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #663366"> [i]lisa, this is exactly what i was thinking as i read your post....and not for the first time actually. i do think he is using her illness against her. honestly, i consider that abusive. emotional abuse. they seem to be rather toxic for each other. i don't know how/if you can/should approach N about this....but i think i'd be forced to since this has happened repeatedly. either he needs to get a handle on this or they need to split. at least if it was my daughter involved that's what i'd be counselling her to do. i have to say you have amazing control. i would have had a very difficult time staying out of that whole scene. would have had to chew my tongue bloody! kris [/i] </span> </span> </span> [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Disgusted
Top