Hello, I'm a newbee I need help, advice or guidance regarding my son. I'm confused, frustrated, and bewildered. My son is disrespectful with a Capital "D!" I'm just going to run down the list: 1. He smokes marijuana /cigarettes in my house. (Disregarding his parents are law enforcement. 2. I've been called everything but a child of God/mom 3. He skips school in order to get high 4. He doesn't come home for days at a time nor calls, and I pay his cell phone bill. 5. He gets put out of every where he goes including bio dad, who walked away for 18years, and then after just one year of living with his son he walked away again with no hesitation nor communication. 6. His new girlfriend of barely 2 months is younger than him, and just as dysfunctional her list reads the same by his own admission. My son has decided to stay with her and sleep in a roach infested one bedroom apt, (his admission) on an air mattress. The young lady and her aunt consistenly fight literally, and her relationship with the aunt's boyfriend is questionable. This is the reason she was put out of the first aunts house. I must apologize if my post appears to be scattered but I needed to vent. My husband and I are deeply frustrated and any advice would be appreciated.