I am positive (well, almost) that Sportsfan has a personality disorder. It seems to kick up the most when he is under pressure, but he is TERRIBLE when it kicks up. It is so over-the-top for a non-drug using man of his age. I'm not sure if he has one personality disorder or a personality disorder not otherwise specified (that was MY diagnosis), but I think he does. Since I have many Borderline (BPD) traits (and tried A LOT harder than he does to try to lick the symptoms), I am wondering if he has a taste of Borderline (BPD). I read that personality disorders, like almost everything else, are now said to run in families. Sportsfan was much better today because some of his anxiety was appeased last night. He is intolerable when under pressure. Worse than many two year olds. Any of you see borderline, narcicism or anything else in your self-centered grown children?