I've been having serious behavior issues with my 7 y/o daughter that started around October. She's always been a little "different" than my other children with her behavior, always very immature, gets into trouble etc. But since around October the teacher has been sending home note after note about her behavior in school. I originally thought ADHD but she can focus on assignments for some time, and other times she is just plain disruptive so the teacher didn't think she had ADHD. I still wonder. I was searching online today for behavioral disorders and came across ODD. She seems to fit too well into this category. I think I need to get some kind of ball rolling to figure out if this could be it, or something else, but something is definately not right with her behavior and I'm at my witts end. She yells at me all the time about how I am so mean, and I don't like her and I like her siblings better than her. She is disruptive in class, won't stay in her seat, doesn't listen to the teacher. She purposly bugs her sisters and brother because she knows it will **** them off. She now is writing letters and packing a bag telling me she is running away. She is sneaky and she lies and won't accept responsibility for anything. If she's told to do something she just tells me it's not fair and I'm mean and she doesn't want to live here anymore. I really don't know what else to do but this is a daily occurence and I'm just done with it. She has temper tantrums daily. She'll scream/yell in the middle of whatever we are doing if something doesn't go her way. We just got a guidance counselor at our school. I am guessing I'll start there. Maybe a meeting with her and the teacher. Any thoughts on what this could be would be helpful. Thanks.