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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 739655" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Hi B;</p><p></p><p>I am Canadian And although our situations are very different they are also extremely similar. I do believe are socialized healthcare system is terribly broken. I also believe that diagnosis and are not given out because then that leads to socialize spending accessibility. Believe it or not I have a friend who is a neurosurgeon who knew his son was on the spectrum and it took him until his son was seven years old before he finally got a confirmed diagnosis.</p><p></p><p>There are two areas that I honestly feel you need help with. The first is your family and your marriage situation what are you doing to counsel the family your husband and yourself. I’m not sure what region you live in and I understand that your husband does make the majority of the money in the household that is a household and he needs to contribute more than income. I have a situation with a colleague right now where she has three children the marriage has disintegrated and they’ve tried desperately to get help for their child who has severe ODD they didn’t get the help they were acquired of things escalated to the point where children’s aid stepped in. The next thing I am going to tell you may sound extremely harsh but it is a reality. The best way to get assistance for your child maybe to give him over or at minimum threaten to relinquish parental rights. This is essentially what my colleague did and then the sports fan place to offer assistance. I would like to say that things are all Rosie in the garden for her now but it is not. Sometimes we must look at the bigger picture and be analytical even though her heart strings are in the way, your other children you and your husband all deserve a good sensible quality of life. Your son is contributing negatively to this scenario. I am gravely concerned as he gets older and stronger that it is going to be much more harmful situation to you and your other children. Do try to seek help for yourselves therapy for yourselves and a more comprehensive program for your son is absolutely necessary. Sometimes we have to get ugly and push hard to get what we know our children need. That is neither easy, fair, or remotely in line with what we feel we need to do for our children as parents. This last comment comes to you from great experience. My son pill into drug addiction between the ages of 16 and 18 we tried desperately to seek help for him but were told because he was 16 he had rights and choices. Although it was very obvious to us that he was a harm to himself and others the system kept saying no. We ended up having her own child arrested after putting them out of the house the battles were horrible and ugly but this was a fight for his life. Now that he has spent six months in an inpatient residential rehab program he will be the first want to look at Yuen rolled his eyes and say how could I not have been a harm to myself and others I was a drug attic to mom. It’s a simple as that but our system is set to protect the general populace and prevent overspending. If our moronic prime minister was remotely Brighton have to understand if he had of decriminalized drugs and took that money and focus it into rehabilitation.; We would have money to deal with mental health and addiction issues in abundance. The other things that I am campaigning to change that our youth act needs to be adjusted to address addiction and mental health issues between the ages of 16 and 18 our children are at harm and they become a harm to themselves and others. As parents yes we recognize they are becoming independent and moving towards adults good but when knees train wrecks hit your home and your family it’s time to sharpen the pencils and change the act to protect her children and do what ever it is we can to help them. It’s no shock to me that the number one killer of young men in Canada between the ages of 30 and 39 is currently overdose. A majority of these individuals have mixed disorders mixed mental health and psycho social disorders that have not been drake diagnosed or treated appropriately. My heart goes out to you and your family keep up the fight because the fight is indeed for all of your lives.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 739655, member: 21895"] Hi B; I am Canadian And although our situations are very different they are also extremely similar. I do believe are socialized healthcare system is terribly broken. I also believe that diagnosis and are not given out because then that leads to socialize spending accessibility. Believe it or not I have a friend who is a neurosurgeon who knew his son was on the spectrum and it took him until his son was seven years old before he finally got a confirmed diagnosis. There are two areas that I honestly feel you need help with. The first is your family and your marriage situation what are you doing to counsel the family your husband and yourself. I’m not sure what region you live in and I understand that your husband does make the majority of the money in the household that is a household and he needs to contribute more than income. I have a situation with a colleague right now where she has three children the marriage has disintegrated and they’ve tried desperately to get help for their child who has severe ODD they didn’t get the help they were acquired of things escalated to the point where children’s aid stepped in. The next thing I am going to tell you may sound extremely harsh but it is a reality. The best way to get assistance for your child maybe to give him over or at minimum threaten to relinquish parental rights. This is essentially what my colleague did and then the sports fan place to offer assistance. I would like to say that things are all Rosie in the garden for her now but it is not. Sometimes we must look at the bigger picture and be analytical even though her heart strings are in the way, your other children you and your husband all deserve a good sensible quality of life. Your son is contributing negatively to this scenario. I am gravely concerned as he gets older and stronger that it is going to be much more harmful situation to you and your other children. Do try to seek help for yourselves therapy for yourselves and a more comprehensive program for your son is absolutely necessary. Sometimes we have to get ugly and push hard to get what we know our children need. That is neither easy, fair, or remotely in line with what we feel we need to do for our children as parents. This last comment comes to you from great experience. My son pill into drug addiction between the ages of 16 and 18 we tried desperately to seek help for him but were told because he was 16 he had rights and choices. Although it was very obvious to us that he was a harm to himself and others the system kept saying no. We ended up having her own child arrested after putting them out of the house the battles were horrible and ugly but this was a fight for his life. Now that he has spent six months in an inpatient residential rehab program he will be the first want to look at Yuen rolled his eyes and say how could I not have been a harm to myself and others I was a drug attic to mom. It’s a simple as that but our system is set to protect the general populace and prevent overspending. If our moronic prime minister was remotely Brighton have to understand if he had of decriminalized drugs and took that money and focus it into rehabilitation.; We would have money to deal with mental health and addiction issues in abundance. The other things that I am campaigning to change that our youth act needs to be adjusted to address addiction and mental health issues between the ages of 16 and 18 our children are at harm and they become a harm to themselves and others. As parents yes we recognize they are becoming independent and moving towards adults good but when knees train wrecks hit your home and your family it’s time to sharpen the pencils and change the act to protect her children and do what ever it is we can to help them. It’s no shock to me that the number one killer of young men in Canada between the ages of 30 and 39 is currently overdose. A majority of these individuals have mixed disorders mixed mental health and psycho social disorders that have not been drake diagnosed or treated appropriately. My heart goes out to you and your family keep up the fight because the fight is indeed for all of your lives. [/QUOTE]
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