I had no cash and I told daughter I'd pay for her ferry across to LI from CT so she could visit her dad (and then he pays for the returning trip. daughter also had worked for me in my office, so I was paying her for that as well. So, I gave her my debit card for an account I only keep open for an auto withdrawal for one bill so there's usually a little bit of extra money in there - not much, but some. I told her to take out $80 ($30 pay and $50 ferry payment). Well, I later learned that she took out $100!! And then I forgot to get my card back for another day and when I went on line this morning to check my account, I learned that she took out another $40! I went into her wallet, got my card and told her this morning that she now owed me $60. How stupid am I? And what nerve!! Jeesh!