Went to see my oldest difficult child psychiatrist for 3 months follow up today.....She is VERY happy with his progress! Says he is the best she has ever seen him! He even gave her a smile or two and cracked yokes with her! WOW! So she only wants to see him in 6 months time....I feel a bit misrable because she didnt want to take him of his SSRI...he is on lowest dose....She says he is doing so well now, why rock the boat! She put me on new medications....says she is worried because it seems as if I am slipping into depression with all that was going on during the last week......with biodad dying exct...... I mentioned to her about little one who is struggling with sensory processing disorder (SPD) and Auditory Processing Disorders (APD) and all the stuff going on with him.....She said she wants to see him for an assessment in the next month......I asked her what more can be done, he is seing Occupational Therapist (OT) and ST....said she just want to see if there isn't something going on..... My mom was upset with me for making an appointment....says there is nothing wrong with him....I must leave him and give him a chance to just grow up a bit....he will cath up......Now I wonder if I wasn't jumping the gun....shouldn't I have waited a bit longer...... Ok and off coarse she also said that we just needed to dissipline more......and the rest..... I worry that this is just maybe going to put a label around his neck.....how long does a person wait things out to see if it will improve......? When do you decide it"s time to see a psychiatrist.....Am I being to hasty?