I came across his website Docspeak.com. I will not go into much detail. I have been implementing his ideas/techniques for the last 48 hours. OMG it is freaking amazing. Not perfect but huge. My difficult child has done what he is supposed to do at home. Yes, he became a little mouthy but he DID it. This man has been in my backyard this whole time. He lives less than 30 miles from me.