Tried to post a longer thread...didn't seem to work. difficult child found out this morning that the psychiatric doctor was informed about his misuse of the Adderal. Became very angry. The appointment is on Monday. We thought we had talked him down; he sounded more conciliatory, said he would go to appointment, but not with us (parents) We went out for a few hours and this is what we found: difficult child, lying on bare mattress. Strong smell of smoke. Not cigarettes, husband thinks it's pot (doesn't smell sweet like I remember, just kind of musty) Ashes on the bedside table. Very angry. Says he is DONE with us. difficult child had been somewhat cooperative last two weeks. No evidence of drinking in the house lately. He had called psychiatric office for refill of Adderal as he said he needed it to focus and concentrate for this class he is taking. A different doctor in the practice wrote the rx. I picked the rx up, had it filled, and locked it up. I dole it out to him each day. Mind you, this is only because he is taking the class (although he probably needs it every day anyway) Well, we are close to being DONE with him. If he messes up this class, he can just forget about finishing his degree any time soon, along with a host of other privileges which he doesn't seem to appreciate.