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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 698741" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>I forgot the problem of biomom not showing up...unless you pick a nearby location and have her confirm she is there before you load up the kids and meet her...it can be a disaster.</p><p></p><p>Biomom would tell the girls when she was going to see them next...even though we asked her not to. We would let her have phone calls with the girls by putting it on speaker phone, Even though we told her NOT to tell the girls anything specific, she would invariably would anyway. Like, "I will bring the gift that I forgot to bring this time when I see you next Saturday." 90% of the time she would be hours late or not show at all, and not call.</p><p></p><p>There is nothing sadder than watching little ones standing in front of a picture window, waiting for their mom to show up! Or when she promised to come to church so she could see the girls sing in the kids choir. They would turn around and watch the door to see if she ever came. Sometimes she would show up after they had performed.</p><p></p><p>Once she snuck in the last 15 minutes of a play they were in and asked me to promise not to tell them. Then when they asked her questions about certain parts, she pretended she saw it. </p><p></p><p>I have dealt with biomom for over 18 years...and now that she is looking at an extended prison sentence, I am actually relieved. </p><p></p><p>Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 698741, member: 12511"] I forgot the problem of biomom not showing up...unless you pick a nearby location and have her confirm she is there before you load up the kids and meet her...it can be a disaster. Biomom would tell the girls when she was going to see them next...even though we asked her not to. We would let her have phone calls with the girls by putting it on speaker phone, Even though we told her NOT to tell the girls anything specific, she would invariably would anyway. Like, "I will bring the gift that I forgot to bring this time when I see you next Saturday." 90% of the time she would be hours late or not show at all, and not call. There is nothing sadder than watching little ones standing in front of a picture window, waiting for their mom to show up! Or when she promised to come to church so she could see the girls sing in the kids choir. They would turn around and watch the door to see if she ever came. Sometimes she would show up after they had performed. Once she snuck in the last 15 minutes of a play they were in and asked me to promise not to tell them. Then when they asked her questions about certain parts, she pretended she saw it. I have dealt with biomom for over 18 years...and now that she is looking at an extended prison sentence, I am actually relieved. Ksm [/QUOTE]
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