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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 724528" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Thanks Lil I hear you. He is in no way tolerated for this behaviour in our home or presence. He was told to cool down or get out. He did get out and cooled down. He is suffering with drug brain and we are trying to be normal in an abnormal situation. </p><p></p><p>If I caught him with Pot or any other substance I would call the police I have called the police we have had him arrested several times. </p><p></p><p>He is out on bail waiting for a rehab bed and we are treading water here. We want him in rehab and I know that he prefers this option over prison. </p><p></p><p>It is a tough situation. If I pull his bond he goes to jail. If he ran off and came home blasted I would not hesitate to call the police. He came home sober and clean and on time and had Cooled off. It is progress and not perfection. </p><p></p><p>You are right we do what we can bare to do. </p><p></p><p>This is not an ideal situation, nor is it an ideal system we are dealing with. </p><p></p><p>If he does go off the rails he will be in prison. He can go to NA there and sort himself out. </p><p></p><p>This woman drives me nuts and I agree there should be no room for breaking laws by anyone particularly not some one in law enforcement. We have had meddling mothers before as my son (as most addicts do) tells a great take of woe. When they have taken him in it has never lasted more than 3 days. Re this cop/mom I can report her but not anonimosly. And I do not have any hard evidence. Just hearsay. Given my engagement with this woman I do not doubt one bit that she is allowing this behaviour at her house. </p><p></p><p>I would love to forbid him to see this girl but they go to school together and second I have no energy to cope with that drama.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 724528, member: 21895"] Thanks Lil I hear you. He is in no way tolerated for this behaviour in our home or presence. He was told to cool down or get out. He did get out and cooled down. He is suffering with drug brain and we are trying to be normal in an abnormal situation. If I caught him with Pot or any other substance I would call the police I have called the police we have had him arrested several times. He is out on bail waiting for a rehab bed and we are treading water here. We want him in rehab and I know that he prefers this option over prison. It is a tough situation. If I pull his bond he goes to jail. If he ran off and came home blasted I would not hesitate to call the police. He came home sober and clean and on time and had Cooled off. It is progress and not perfection. You are right we do what we can bare to do. This is not an ideal situation, nor is it an ideal system we are dealing with. If he does go off the rails he will be in prison. He can go to NA there and sort himself out. This woman drives me nuts and I agree there should be no room for breaking laws by anyone particularly not some one in law enforcement. We have had meddling mothers before as my son (as most addicts do) tells a great take of woe. When they have taken him in it has never lasted more than 3 days. Re this cop/mom I can report her but not anonimosly. And I do not have any hard evidence. Just hearsay. Given my engagement with this woman I do not doubt one bit that she is allowing this behaviour at her house. I would love to forbid him to see this girl but they go to school together and second I have no energy to cope with that drama. [/QUOTE]
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