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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 722566" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Thank you Susiestar for your wisdom and insight. Most all that you have written I have gone over in my head and talked about with my husband over the weekend.</p><p>When my daughter was a little girl, she was a very sweet child. I would have seen signs of psychopathy from her. I saw when the adult onset bipolar was coming on and it was heartbreaking. I know a person is born a psychopath and some have psychopathic trailts along with bipolar and borderline disorder. I keep trying to work it out with her because in my heart I do not believe she was born a psychopath. I have studied this enough to know that while some people are manic they turn into a psychopath. But in reality ill or evil it still leaves the same type of destruction. I am also a bereaved mom, losing my only son to death so I see things on a complete different level than most people~One of the reasons it hurts past the core is that my daughter lost her brother and watched her dad and me suffer severely yet keeps on doing us wrong.</p><p></p><p>We went several years where my daughter was paying her bills and keeping things afloat, during that time we let down our guard. I witnessed my daughter contributing and trying to do the right thing. It is my fault that I thought she had grown up and out of that awful behavior. My husband and I do not have criminal minds so I have been studying on line and coming here to get advice and support on how to stop being a victim, thank you Susiestar, for your insight and outlook and for me to take deeper action. My daughter did ok for years and then got into a toxic relationship and things are real bad again. Still NO excuse.</p><p></p><p>Our family Priest has know our daughter since she was 2. He loves her. They have had a great relationship in the past. My daughter was a great leader for the youth programs and contributed much time and energy there. It will break his heart if I tell him the things she has done. I will seek counsel somewhere else but in reality my husband and I know what needs to be done, and we are taking steps to do it.</p><p></p><p>My daughter drains me in the same way as my mother in law and sister in law. It is an energy spiritual drain. My husband and I say the 'Our Father' on a regular basis and that particular prayer gives us strenght. From this day forward I am going to take active steps forward to protect ourselves better.</p><p></p><p>The arrangment for the house was that if she gets married or pays it off we transfer the title to her name or if she decides to sell, divide the costs and give her the portion she has paid into. But now things have changed. She has not paid her rent for nearly 1/2 year so we are considering her just a bad renter and getting all that money back and keeping it, charging her for the continued grief and heartache she has caused.</p><p></p><p>There is a scene in the movie 'The color Purple' where Oprah leaves her abusive husband and sticks her hand up and say's All the crap you have given me in the past is going to come back to you' </p><p>That is about to happen when we take all the money from the house and use it as payment for all the crap, lies and deceit she has given us. Plus the awful disrespectful man she lives with that does not know how to say thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 722566, member: 22416"] Thank you Susiestar for your wisdom and insight. Most all that you have written I have gone over in my head and talked about with my husband over the weekend. When my daughter was a little girl, she was a very sweet child. I would have seen signs of psychopathy from her. I saw when the adult onset bipolar was coming on and it was heartbreaking. I know a person is born a psychopath and some have psychopathic trailts along with bipolar and borderline disorder. I keep trying to work it out with her because in my heart I do not believe she was born a psychopath. I have studied this enough to know that while some people are manic they turn into a psychopath. But in reality ill or evil it still leaves the same type of destruction. I am also a bereaved mom, losing my only son to death so I see things on a complete different level than most people~One of the reasons it hurts past the core is that my daughter lost her brother and watched her dad and me suffer severely yet keeps on doing us wrong. We went several years where my daughter was paying her bills and keeping things afloat, during that time we let down our guard. I witnessed my daughter contributing and trying to do the right thing. It is my fault that I thought she had grown up and out of that awful behavior. My husband and I do not have criminal minds so I have been studying on line and coming here to get advice and support on how to stop being a victim, thank you Susiestar, for your insight and outlook and for me to take deeper action. My daughter did ok for years and then got into a toxic relationship and things are real bad again. Still NO excuse. Our family Priest has know our daughter since she was 2. He loves her. They have had a great relationship in the past. My daughter was a great leader for the youth programs and contributed much time and energy there. It will break his heart if I tell him the things she has done. I will seek counsel somewhere else but in reality my husband and I know what needs to be done, and we are taking steps to do it. My daughter drains me in the same way as my mother in law and sister in law. It is an energy spiritual drain. My husband and I say the 'Our Father' on a regular basis and that particular prayer gives us strenght. From this day forward I am going to take active steps forward to protect ourselves better. The arrangment for the house was that if she gets married or pays it off we transfer the title to her name or if she decides to sell, divide the costs and give her the portion she has paid into. But now things have changed. She has not paid her rent for nearly 1/2 year so we are considering her just a bad renter and getting all that money back and keeping it, charging her for the continued grief and heartache she has caused. There is a scene in the movie 'The color Purple' where Oprah leaves her abusive husband and sticks her hand up and say's All the crap you have given me in the past is going to come back to you' That is about to happen when we take all the money from the house and use it as payment for all the crap, lies and deceit she has given us. Plus the awful disrespectful man she lives with that does not know how to say thank you. [/QUOTE]
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