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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 722757" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I would clue in the priest so she cannot use him to blindside you socially. Then I would figure out how to evict her and the man for nonpayment of rent. You have to go through the court, and she may trash the house in however long it takes to get the eviction through the court, but you can sue her for damages. Very few states give any weight to oral agreements regarding real estate, but you might want to consult an attorney regarding the agreement for her to buy the house. Just to protect yourselves. </p><p></p><p>If you are on her car and her bank account, that means they are legally yours as well. I would take cash out of the bank and if she owes you anything for the car and isn't paying it, take it. Or have a repo guy do it. If she is angry at any of your relatives, especially wealthy ones that she feels somehow "owe" her something, encourage them to check their credit. </p><p></p><p>I am glad the practical suggestions help. I have seen my bipolar ex sister in law do this stuff and brag about having done this stuff to people. I have also seen difficult children hear on the site do this kind of thing. It is ridiculous of them and I hope that someday when they come to their senses they are completely ashamed of how awful they are. </p><p></p><p>I am so glad you have a new attitude. I hope you can hold on to it. Sometimes a change in attitude makes even the most awful situation a hundred times more bearable.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 722757, member: 1233"] I would clue in the priest so she cannot use him to blindside you socially. Then I would figure out how to evict her and the man for nonpayment of rent. You have to go through the court, and she may trash the house in however long it takes to get the eviction through the court, but you can sue her for damages. Very few states give any weight to oral agreements regarding real estate, but you might want to consult an attorney regarding the agreement for her to buy the house. Just to protect yourselves. If you are on her car and her bank account, that means they are legally yours as well. I would take cash out of the bank and if she owes you anything for the car and isn't paying it, take it. Or have a repo guy do it. If she is angry at any of your relatives, especially wealthy ones that she feels somehow "owe" her something, encourage them to check their credit. I am glad the practical suggestions help. I have seen my bipolar ex sister in law do this stuff and brag about having done this stuff to people. I have also seen difficult children hear on the site do this kind of thing. It is ridiculous of them and I hope that someday when they come to their senses they are completely ashamed of how awful they are. I am so glad you have a new attitude. I hope you can hold on to it. Sometimes a change in attitude makes even the most awful situation a hundred times more bearable. [/QUOTE]
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