for our spa thingy. i was really looking forward to it days ago yet now i'm a bit burnt out so i'm not. hopefully later i will again. she is looking forward to it. i hope she doenst' blow up at me LOL. we have to be together all day tmrw than dinner tmrw night and sunday all day. a real test for us. i'm shutting my cell or at least silencing it. difficult child will be with her father she wanted to go there and is getting picked up in the a.m. i'm going to do my best not to think about all the negative and just live in the moment with this kid. husband and i are struggling again also, surprise surprise. so i'm making a rule no contact with-him as soon as i hit my truck unless i'Tourette's Syndrome did you get there ok. other than that i'm making him invisible also hopefully easy child will return well rested, hair done, and ready to tackle school on monday and all that will be thrown at her.