hi, yup me again. let me just say i would prefer anyone with whom wants to give a rough or rash remark to save it and do not respond. thank you i appreciate it. so, easy child's boyfriend was arrested for larceny. how did i find out? on the aol news ihave it set to our town info. thingy. this i same boyfriend that well let' just say easy child gets very defiant when with, nasty, difficult, etc. and a joy to have around home. most of the time she spends her time outside the home with-friends to be honest as of late except certain dinner's i require her presence and after school to check in, she does adhere to curfew. called easy child in to discuss it and said *** got arrested and she played dumb with a smirk on her face. i said you have got to be kidding me? why are you with this kid? you know from last time he's just not for you, now he's getting arrested you deserve better. did the whole speech. she went to walk out of room after yelling at me. i went to door and physically blocked it said we have to discuss this please. she than said if u so much as touch me i'll punch you in your face. cursed me out, told me a few other choice words, etc. i said under no circumstances are you to speak to me that way, you are grounded till further notice. you are not to have that boy around here, i cannot control what you do once out yet u won't be going out so that will not be a problem. i told husband who had a talk with this boy not so long ago and told him you do one thing wrong i'm on your porch with u and your parents we aren't playing anymore. so i told him you ready for porch now, because i'm done with this kid and the manipulation he has on easy child. we had a great calm period leading up to wedding with-her and after. she was thrilled we were married, thrilled about everything than he came back into picture and she totally changed yet again. any ideas? and yea i already know very unhealthy for difficult child to hear this stuff.