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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 638505" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Glad to hear he continues to improve. And great for you to recognize the risk of falling back to old unhealthy patterns. I sincerely believe that noticing and voicing those concerns clearly and openly can help you to build a healthier relationship with him. And it to be an adult relationship, not a care giving relationship.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Great job there too. There are lots of resources to help people who have fallen from wagons but for some reason they are often difficult for those people who need them to find. Or paper work difficult to finish. It is much better when needed assistance comes from outside source and not from the family (so that family dynamics etc. don't get in the way), but often it can require more know-how and resources to find that assistance than people who need it usually have.</p><p></p><p>In my neck of woods they have woken up to this a bit and there are more places where people can just walk in, but way too often getting assistance for those most in need requires much more hoop jumping and paper work than people who need those services can handle.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 638505, member: 14557"] Glad to hear he continues to improve. And great for you to recognize the risk of falling back to old unhealthy patterns. I sincerely believe that noticing and voicing those concerns clearly and openly can help you to build a healthier relationship with him. And it to be an adult relationship, not a care giving relationship. Great job there too. There are lots of resources to help people who have fallen from wagons but for some reason they are often difficult for those people who need them to find. Or paper work difficult to finish. It is much better when needed assistance comes from outside source and not from the family (so that family dynamics etc. don't get in the way), but often it can require more know-how and resources to find that assistance than people who need it usually have. In my neck of woods they have woken up to this a bit and there are more places where people can just walk in, but way too often getting assistance for those most in need requires much more hoop jumping and paper work than people who need those services can handle. [/QUOTE]
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