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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 703924" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If he was going to get on his feet, I feel it would have been long ago and not because of you. You need to live your life. In ten years when you are 81 and he is 58 do you still want this to be your life?</p><p></p><p>He is old and wise and knows what to do without your help to get on feet. He doesn't seem to understand that he is not a little boy and that you are not his young mommy.</p><p></p><p>Can you and your husband travel and have fun before it is too late? There is a "too late" for all of us. Your adult kids will be on their own when you are gome and well into their 50s. That is not young. They will either change or not but it doesn't depend on you.</p><p></p><p>Have fun. Live well. Is it not finally time to let go? For yourself?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 703924, member: 1550"] If he was going to get on his feet, I feel it would have been long ago and not because of you. You need to live your life. In ten years when you are 81 and he is 58 do you still want this to be your life? He is old and wise and knows what to do without your help to get on feet. He doesn't seem to understand that he is not a little boy and that you are not his young mommy. Can you and your husband travel and have fun before it is too late? There is a "too late" for all of us. Your adult kids will be on their own when you are gome and well into their 50s. That is not young. They will either change or not but it doesn't depend on you. Have fun. Live well. Is it not finally time to let go? For yourself? [/QUOTE]
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