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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 21927" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>busywend...I am more concerned that some people have a pattern of things that they repeat in the next relationship. once a cheat always a cheat, a liar lies, etc. does boyfriend have a history of this sort of thing? if so can he stop?</p><p></p><p>if I started up with another person I would also have to use this concept:</p><p></p><p>A person's behavior history is the best indicator of their future behavior...UNLESS the pain of their behavior makes them change their pattern.</p><p></p><p>for me I have a history of being loyal to the wrong people, being way too trusting, way too Pollyanna, naive, being oblivious to things that will cause me pain down the road. </p><p></p><p>the pain of my marriage got so bad that I finally was moved after 32 yrs to get out. that was after many many times my ex hurt lied and then apologized with the "I will never do that again". </p><p></p><p>it taught me to be more cautious.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 21927, member: 97"] busywend...I am more concerned that some people have a pattern of things that they repeat in the next relationship. once a cheat always a cheat, a liar lies, etc. does boyfriend have a history of this sort of thing? if so can he stop? if I started up with another person I would also have to use this concept: A person's behavior history is the best indicator of their future behavior...UNLESS the pain of their behavior makes them change their pattern. for me I have a history of being loyal to the wrong people, being way too trusting, way too Pollyanna, naive, being oblivious to things that will cause me pain down the road. the pain of my marriage got so bad that I finally was moved after 32 yrs to get out. that was after many many times my ex hurt lied and then apologized with the "I will never do that again". it taught me to be more cautious. [/QUOTE]
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