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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 21950" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>You are the master of your fate. Personally I tend to agree with</p><p>galpal. Your expectations are unrealistically high and you are allowing your Ex to control your future by your determination to</p><p>be in control of any SO. If you were to find a man who was willing to only do, think and say what you told them to....you would have no reason to respect them as mature independent men.</p><p>Ant needs to know that partnerships have to be worked on in a regular way and that neither adult has to be perfect in all ways.</p><p>A large percentage of alcoholics and drug addicts are driven to that life style because they "are not good enough". I fear that</p><p>the ripple effect of your insecurities could demonstrate that it</p><p>is not enough to work hard daily, to contribute to the household</p><p>maintenance, to love-play-care for and with your child, to avoid</p><p>addictives, to display kindness. You may find a man who will never think or speak or dream about another woman. I doubt very</p><p>seriously that a man exists that can be all that your SO is and</p><p>can be. Your my cyber sister so I'll support you. on the other hand...sister</p><p>to sister...you're blowing it! DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 21950, member: 35"] You are the master of your fate. Personally I tend to agree with galpal. Your expectations are unrealistically high and you are allowing your Ex to control your future by your determination to be in control of any SO. If you were to find a man who was willing to only do, think and say what you told them to....you would have no reason to respect them as mature independent men. Ant needs to know that partnerships have to be worked on in a regular way and that neither adult has to be perfect in all ways. A large percentage of alcoholics and drug addicts are driven to that life style because they "are not good enough". I fear that the ripple effect of your insecurities could demonstrate that it is not enough to work hard daily, to contribute to the household maintenance, to love-play-care for and with your child, to avoid addictives, to display kindness. You may find a man who will never think or speak or dream about another woman. I doubt very seriously that a man exists that can be all that your SO is and can be. Your my cyber sister so I'll support you. on the other hand...sister to sister...you're blowing it! DDD [/QUOTE]
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