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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 22055" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Janet, remember that women think very differently than men and you are getting advice from women.</p><p></p><p>I was with someone for 3 yrs before my marriage.</p><p>His romantic connection was with his ex-wife!</p><p>He painted a picture of him just being a good dad and taking care of his son.</p><p>It started with little things, and over the yrs ended with her calling me to tell me he was on his way to see her and their son was not even there.</p><p>He had an answer for anything I asked. When I got fed up and broke it off, he cried and pleaded.</p><p>I gave in (you know he must love only me to go to all this trouble to get me back????)</p><p>I found stuff that she left in his car for me to find, he had a reason. </p><p>He always managed to come up with an explanation that could very well have been the truth.</p><p>This man was toxic to me ~ I was alive with him, I simply adored him!!</p><p>I left the state and moved back here to be able to rid myself of him.</p><p></p><p>Be careful ~ it brought back old memories when you said he called her but you didn't witness the call.</p><p>If he was being honest and truly breaking the ties with her he would want you to be in the room.</p><p></p><p>When I demanded that my exbf call his ex about what was going on, it never happened in front of me.</p><p></p><p>My husband would solve any problem in front of me, he knows my trust has been shattered by my past and understands that sometimes I can't just take his word and I need to witness it.</p><p></p><p>If he really is being honest with you, he would do the same thing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 22055, member: 2389"] Janet, remember that women think very differently than men and you are getting advice from women. I was with someone for 3 yrs before my marriage. His romantic connection was with his ex-wife! He painted a picture of him just being a good dad and taking care of his son. It started with little things, and over the yrs ended with her calling me to tell me he was on his way to see her and their son was not even there. He had an answer for anything I asked. When I got fed up and broke it off, he cried and pleaded. I gave in (you know he must love only me to go to all this trouble to get me back????) I found stuff that she left in his car for me to find, he had a reason. He always managed to come up with an explanation that could very well have been the truth. This man was toxic to me ~ I was alive with him, I simply adored him!! I left the state and moved back here to be able to rid myself of him. Be careful ~ it brought back old memories when you said he called her but you didn't witness the call. If he was being honest and truly breaking the ties with her he would want you to be in the room. When I demanded that my exbf call his ex about what was going on, it never happened in front of me. My husband would solve any problem in front of me, he knows my trust has been shattered by my past and understands that sometimes I can't just take his word and I need to witness it. If he really is being honest with you, he would do the same thing. [/QUOTE]
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