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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 22117" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Good Grief, Janet. You would have a very sad sitation if boyfriend played with Ant!!!!!!!! I thought boyfriend had been mentioned as cooking dinner, doing yardwork and/or detailing the cars. My</p><p>picture of him is as a participatory family member. I'm sure my</p><p>memory is right that he is outstanding with Kaleb and has served</p><p>as a role model for Ant.</p><p></p><p>I would never presume to tell you or anyone to break up or to stay with someone. Believe me the "world" was shocked when I</p><p>divorced my first husband and I didn't share issues about him</p><p>until years after we split. There are times when I would be really delighted to have my wonderful husband hit the road...lol...</p><p>and I suppose the same is true in reverse.</p><p></p><p>What I was trying to say is that your expectations exceed those</p><p>of most mature women. Infidelity is a major issue. Having friends of another sex with-o including your spouse is a non-issue</p><p>in my mind. In a zillion years I would never have eavesdropped</p><p>on my #1 or dear husband. Being SO's or spouses, in my humble opinion, does not mean</p><p>that you have to share every thought, conversation, activity or</p><p>friend. It means that, at the end of the day, you are going</p><p>"home". He became who he is by living decades without you or your family. The man opted to share life with you...and eh Gods</p><p>your life, like many of ours, is no Leave It To Beaver existence!</p><p>The Dude has my admiration based on your posts over the past couple of years. I would hate to think that you would end up alone because he can't meet your expectations. Hugs. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 22117, member: 35"] Good Grief, Janet. You would have a very sad sitation if boyfriend played with Ant!!!!!!!! I thought boyfriend had been mentioned as cooking dinner, doing yardwork and/or detailing the cars. My picture of him is as a participatory family member. I'm sure my memory is right that he is outstanding with Kaleb and has served as a role model for Ant. I would never presume to tell you or anyone to break up or to stay with someone. Believe me the "world" was shocked when I divorced my first husband and I didn't share issues about him until years after we split. There are times when I would be really delighted to have my wonderful husband hit the road...lol... and I suppose the same is true in reverse. What I was trying to say is that your expectations exceed those of most mature women. Infidelity is a major issue. Having friends of another sex with-o including your spouse is a non-issue in my mind. In a zillion years I would never have eavesdropped on my #1 or dear husband. Being SO's or spouses, in my humble opinion, does not mean that you have to share every thought, conversation, activity or friend. It means that, at the end of the day, you are going "home". He became who he is by living decades without you or your family. The man opted to share life with you...and eh Gods your life, like many of ours, is no Leave It To Beaver existence! The Dude has my admiration based on your posts over the past couple of years. I would hate to think that you would end up alone because he can't meet your expectations. Hugs. DDD [/QUOTE]
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