That's the newest revelation. Not sure if revelation is the right word - just having it said out loud. The weird thing is that she does have friends her age (although she doesn't do much with them outside of school) and her intelligence puts her on par with older kids and adults. She's not one to follow the crowd, either. So, from the outside you wouldn't know that she has the emotional maturity of a 5 year old. We had in home therapy yesterday, I saw regular therapist today, and had a meeting with caseworkers and the consensus is that everyone is grasping at straws and no one really has a handle on her. Yippee.