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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 640465" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi Meghan,</p><p></p><p>Welcome. The first thing I noticed reading your story is that you and your ex agreed to not tell your daughters the truth behind your divorce. This was a big red flag for me. As unpleasant as it may have been your daughters should have been told the truth and it should have been from their father. They didn't need all the gory details but they should have been told. Hind sight is 20/20.</p><p></p><p>It also occurred to me that your ex may be operating out of fear and that is what has led him to as MWM put it so well, "gaslighting" you. What better way to not have his daughters find out the truth than to shift attention towards you.</p><p></p><p>I agree with MWM in that you should keep low contact with your oldest daughter and the topic of you being Borderline (BPD) is off limits.</p><p></p><p>You sound like you have a very good life and a good grip on what is going on. It's hard to watch our children grow away from us. They make their own choices and we have no control over that.</p><p></p><p>Wishing you peace.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 640465, member: 18516"] Hi Meghan, Welcome. The first thing I noticed reading your story is that you and your ex agreed to not tell your daughters the truth behind your divorce. This was a big red flag for me. As unpleasant as it may have been your daughters should have been told the truth and it should have been from their father. They didn't need all the gory details but they should have been told. Hind sight is 20/20. It also occurred to me that your ex may be operating out of fear and that is what has led him to as MWM put it so well, "gaslighting" you. What better way to not have his daughters find out the truth than to shift attention towards you. I agree with MWM in that you should keep low contact with your oldest daughter and the topic of you being Borderline (BPD) is off limits. You sound like you have a very good life and a good grip on what is going on. It's hard to watch our children grow away from us. They make their own choices and we have no control over that. Wishing you peace. [/QUOTE]
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