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<blockquote data-quote="fedup" data-source="post: 20247" data-attributes="member: 17"><p>difficult child did not get admitted. He is home. I don't know yet what caused the issues last night.</p><p></p><p>Hubby added new issues (we've been having them for awhile). Hubby has to make everything revolve around him. After they left last night, I locked the door, because I didn't know what was going on or how long he'd be gone. He turned it into a trust issue- he doesn't trust me and claimed that the locked door and light off (I didn't mess with the light) created a hostile environment. "That makes c ommunication difficult and trust impossible."</p><p></p><p>I think that our son's issues should have trumped the locked door and that lack of communication in the first place has caused the ensuing lack of trust between us.</p><p></p><p>In other words, hubby is being just as much difficult child as son right now. And it is very difficult to stay detached and not show any emotion to them. That is what they both seem to expect. Neither is really into the psychiatrist and counseling of any helpful sort probably will not happen.</p><p></p><p>And, I am off to work antoehr day. Hopefully, there will be enough to do to keep my mind off the struggles on the homefront.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="fedup, post: 20247, member: 17"] difficult child did not get admitted. He is home. I don't know yet what caused the issues last night. Hubby added new issues (we've been having them for awhile). Hubby has to make everything revolve around him. After they left last night, I locked the door, because I didn't know what was going on or how long he'd be gone. He turned it into a trust issue- he doesn't trust me and claimed that the locked door and light off (I didn't mess with the light) created a hostile environment. "That makes c ommunication difficult and trust impossible." I think that our son's issues should have trumped the locked door and that lack of communication in the first place has caused the ensuing lack of trust between us. In other words, hubby is being just as much difficult child as son right now. And it is very difficult to stay detached and not show any emotion to them. That is what they both seem to expect. Neither is really into the psychiatrist and counseling of any helpful sort probably will not happen. And, I am off to work antoehr day. Hopefully, there will be enough to do to keep my mind off the struggles on the homefront. [/QUOTE]
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