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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 36001" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>I read your sad post. I feel sorry that you have so much of a burden. more than one person should have. I can relate to so much of it. my son did all that and more at that age. i called the cops time and again. he took a baseball bat to a car here and I called the cops as he was hitting the windshield.</p><p></p><p>he was in many placements. he is consumed with underlying anger and frustration. he is very intelligent also. he is almost 24. he has outgrown a lot of the acting out. he is an alcoholic. </p><p></p><p>I beg to differ wtih you on the being a bad mother part. a bad mother would not hold her son accountable. a bad mother would let him rule the roost and cower in her bed hiding from him as he over took the household.</p><p></p><p>a very brave and loving mother would not allow her son to get away with destroying property. a very wise mother would know he would one day do this to strangers and would not get away with it from them.</p><p></p><p>still, it is painful to be a good mom, isnt it? I had to make my son move out of here three weeks ago. my heart would rather he live here while so I could baby him some more. my mind knows he must grow up. he lives in a bad area now and must take a bus to a ride to work. he struggles. I must allow this struggle so he can one day be a man.</p><p></p><p>still, I do get tears in my eyes, and also a lump in my throat. this it not what I wanted. </p><p></p><p>my son forced my hand as did yours. pray he gets the guidance he needs. </p><p></p><p>I also hope you are able to develop a life partner. it is so nice to have support and a good person to walk thru life with you shoulder to shoulder. I too want that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 36001, member: 97"] I read your sad post. I feel sorry that you have so much of a burden. more than one person should have. I can relate to so much of it. my son did all that and more at that age. i called the cops time and again. he took a baseball bat to a car here and I called the cops as he was hitting the windshield. he was in many placements. he is consumed with underlying anger and frustration. he is very intelligent also. he is almost 24. he has outgrown a lot of the acting out. he is an alcoholic. I beg to differ wtih you on the being a bad mother part. a bad mother would not hold her son accountable. a bad mother would let him rule the roost and cower in her bed hiding from him as he over took the household. a very brave and loving mother would not allow her son to get away with destroying property. a very wise mother would know he would one day do this to strangers and would not get away with it from them. still, it is painful to be a good mom, isnt it? I had to make my son move out of here three weeks ago. my heart would rather he live here while so I could baby him some more. my mind knows he must grow up. he lives in a bad area now and must take a bus to a ride to work. he struggles. I must allow this struggle so he can one day be a man. still, I do get tears in my eyes, and also a lump in my throat. this it not what I wanted. my son forced my hand as did yours. pray he gets the guidance he needs. I also hope you are able to develop a life partner. it is so nice to have support and a good person to walk thru life with you shoulder to shoulder. I too want that. [/QUOTE]
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