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<blockquote data-quote="Got2Sleep" data-source="post: 31836" data-attributes="member: 3587"><p>I think I get tired and stressed and come here or my email group to decompress per say. But, my easy child's? Where do they go? They were in therapy until we lost insurance. Now I KNOW they have to go back. Today, after a full day of name calling, being the punching bag, and having his pants pulled down by difficult child--my 14yr old easy child snapped. He lightly slapped difficult child in the face. NOW--I lost it on him! HE is 14-difficult child is 6 and TINY! HOW could you hit him? I didnt mean too he said..I jut wanted hima way from me! I was so mad.....</p><p></p><p>After I calmed down, and difficult child came out of his crying, nobody likes me moment, I realized that...WE HAVE GOT TO GET SOME HELP! I did go in and apologize to easy child about yelling at him. I KNOW how he was feeling, I just know enough NOT to act on it. He was VERY down on himself and kept saying, MOM, he has hit me and cussed me all day! I just want him away! </p><p></p><p>Tears and hugs later, we talked about how difficult child is just that. FROM GOD, warts and all. That although there are times he cant control himself, we HAVE to and our job is to model and teach him how to do that.</p><p></p><p>The other 2 easy child's were with us, and the youngest easy child just kept saying, but MOM..HE is sooo mean! </p><p></p><p>So, Monday we will be making an appointment so they can talk to someone and hopefully get their frustrations out!</p><p></p><p>~S</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Got2Sleep, post: 31836, member: 3587"] I think I get tired and stressed and come here or my email group to decompress per say. But, my easy child's? Where do they go? They were in therapy until we lost insurance. Now I KNOW they have to go back. Today, after a full day of name calling, being the punching bag, and having his pants pulled down by difficult child--my 14yr old easy child snapped. He lightly slapped difficult child in the face. NOW--I lost it on him! HE is 14-difficult child is 6 and TINY! HOW could you hit him? I didnt mean too he said..I jut wanted hima way from me! I was so mad..... After I calmed down, and difficult child came out of his crying, nobody likes me moment, I realized that...WE HAVE GOT TO GET SOME HELP! I did go in and apologize to easy child about yelling at him. I KNOW how he was feeling, I just know enough NOT to act on it. He was VERY down on himself and kept saying, MOM, he has hit me and cussed me all day! I just want him away! Tears and hugs later, we talked about how difficult child is just that. FROM GOD, warts and all. That although there are times he cant control himself, we HAVE to and our job is to model and teach him how to do that. The other 2 easy child's were with us, and the youngest easy child just kept saying, but MOM..HE is sooo mean! So, Monday we will be making an appointment so they can talk to someone and hopefully get their frustrations out! ~S [/QUOTE]
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