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Ex-Girlfriend sends me a text??
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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 759833" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Trying,</p><p></p><p>It is hard not to read a text message isn't it? I agree with the others. I would read it but not involve yourself if she needs to connect with your son. I agree with the others also in that I lived with an alcoholic for 30 years and there's nothing you will do that will keep your son sober. Someone once told me that they will drink over an untied shoe lace and that is the truth! But I wouldn't reply or offer information. Quite frankly, unknowingly the ex-girlfriend could have and most likely was an enabler such as myself. They are grown adults and you don't have to be the go-between.</p><p></p><p>By the way. My ex husband who I was married to for 30 years and drank all those 30 years, is sober over a year now. He does have psychological "damage" from the years and years of drinking but works out and takes care of himself now. It is possible that they maintain sobriety but sometimes certain people need to get off the merry-go-round to allow them to do so.</p><p></p><p>I will pray that your son remains on the right path!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 759833, member: 23405"] Trying, It is hard not to read a text message isn't it? I agree with the others. I would read it but not involve yourself if she needs to connect with your son. I agree with the others also in that I lived with an alcoholic for 30 years and there's nothing you will do that will keep your son sober. Someone once told me that they will drink over an untied shoe lace and that is the truth! But I wouldn't reply or offer information. Quite frankly, unknowingly the ex-girlfriend could have and most likely was an enabler such as myself. They are grown adults and you don't have to be the go-between. By the way. My ex husband who I was married to for 30 years and drank all those 30 years, is sober over a year now. He does have psychological "damage" from the years and years of drinking but works out and takes care of himself now. It is possible that they maintain sobriety but sometimes certain people need to get off the merry-go-round to allow them to do so. I will pray that your son remains on the right path! [/QUOTE]
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