So my darling ex, who is infamous for skipping weekends at random, texted me on Sunday and told me he will be skipping two whole weekends in a row. No explanation. Just said it plain and matter of factly. When I asked him what the reason is, he told me it was none of my business. Well my boyfriend's birthday is this Saturday and I was going to take him out to a nice dinner, just the two of us. Not happening. Remember just two months ago when he did this very same thing on my birthday? Well he's doing it again, only this time he is going an entire month without seeing the kids at all. When I told the kids they wouldn't be seeing their dad again till December, difficult child 1 was furious. Against my wishes, she texted her dad to ask him why he would not be seeing them. His response, "We have adult things to do for the next couple of weekends that do not include kids. difficult child wasn't buying it. She texted him again asking what he meant by "adult things to do". I told her to stop texting him because he was going to mistakenly think I was putting her up to it. Sure enough, her dad responds to her with "Tell your mom it's none of your business." I made difficult child respond back to him to tell him that it was HER idea to ask all those questions and not mine. He then texted her telling her she better stop texting him. difficult child finally backed off. I am just furious at him! Once again he ruins my plans, not to mention the fact that he is okay with not seeing his kids for a whole month?! I can't imagine being okay with going that long without seeing my children! And once again his child support check is late, and if I don't get it by Friday, we will be stuck completely broke for the weekend. Ugh!!!! Somebody tell me what I ever saw in this man??? Vent over.