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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 641568" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>Thank you MWM. I feel like I have been waiting for that story forever for some reason and I appreciate you taking the time to explain it to me, I feel special now lol. I do have a question, I know you lightly broached the subject on how 37 feels about Scott, but how were they together when they were kids? I know he and julie were the closest, but how was 37 and Scott's relationship when they were kids and how many years are they apart?</p><p></p><p>By the way, your stories help me recognize bull crap in my own life and how I shouldn't be tolerating it. My brother loves to brag the same way Scott does, but if I ever called him out on it or simply stated how I feel about it (I never did because I never wanted to appear jealous) but that's exactly what would everyone call me, jealous and I would be in the wrong for saying it, for speaking my mind. My brother is very pompous , arrogant and thinks he is King of this town. It is so laughable, I want to die. The people he associates with are weak minded losers (literally, losers) and if I had any interest at all in controlling them and using them like he does, I could do it very easily, EXCEPT I am NOT that kind of a person, but HE IS. I don't use and take advantage of people, but hey, the people in his circle seem to love his tyrant abuse. He says jump, and they ask how high. The worse part about this is that he is my YOUNGER brother by quite a few years and I won't lie, it's kind of humiliating for me. His seriously loser friends think they can look down on me (which is the most hilarious but infuriating thing at the same time). I'm just like you gotta be kiddin me. This has got to be a joke. I have got to be living in the Twilight Zone. These loser friends would still be living in their parents basements playing with their wee wee's all day if it wasn't for my brother. Anyway, that's another story for another time. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>My point is, that I GET IT. I now learn that it's ok for me to be offended, speak my mind and then distance myself. You all have no idea the crap I have to deal with when being around my brother. Everything he says is cocky and abusive. His loser friends are always around, from morning, noon and night. They are his employee's as well. My brother is never alone, he can't handle being alone even though he has a girlfriend and three kids. He admits he needs someone around at all times. He tells them all what to do, orders them around, and they do his bidding for him happily and if they don't do what he says, he will godfather slap all of them. All of his friends and girlfriends have been b*tched slapped repeatedly by my brother if they dare talk out of turn to him. He runs everything. He is the King of his little world. He is a legend in his own mind. You would never believe that a situation like this existed unless you seen it with your very own eye balls. I know what you mean when you say this is not the little boy that I once knew and loved. Never in my wildest dreams would I have ever even imagined that he would turn out this way. It's TOO much to even try to comprehend.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 641568, member: 18233"] Thank you MWM. I feel like I have been waiting for that story forever for some reason and I appreciate you taking the time to explain it to me, I feel special now lol. I do have a question, I know you lightly broached the subject on how 37 feels about Scott, but how were they together when they were kids? I know he and julie were the closest, but how was 37 and Scott's relationship when they were kids and how many years are they apart? By the way, your stories help me recognize bull crap in my own life and how I shouldn't be tolerating it. My brother loves to brag the same way Scott does, but if I ever called him out on it or simply stated how I feel about it (I never did because I never wanted to appear jealous) but that's exactly what would everyone call me, jealous and I would be in the wrong for saying it, for speaking my mind. My brother is very pompous , arrogant and thinks he is King of this town. It is so laughable, I want to die. The people he associates with are weak minded losers (literally, losers) and if I had any interest at all in controlling them and using them like he does, I could do it very easily, EXCEPT I am NOT that kind of a person, but HE IS. I don't use and take advantage of people, but hey, the people in his circle seem to love his tyrant abuse. He says jump, and they ask how high. The worse part about this is that he is my YOUNGER brother by quite a few years and I won't lie, it's kind of humiliating for me. His seriously loser friends think they can look down on me (which is the most hilarious but infuriating thing at the same time). I'm just like you gotta be kiddin me. This has got to be a joke. I have got to be living in the Twilight Zone. These loser friends would still be living in their parents basements playing with their wee wee's all day if it wasn't for my brother. Anyway, that's another story for another time. My point is, that I GET IT. I now learn that it's ok for me to be offended, speak my mind and then distance myself. You all have no idea the crap I have to deal with when being around my brother. Everything he says is cocky and abusive. His loser friends are always around, from morning, noon and night. They are his employee's as well. My brother is never alone, he can't handle being alone even though he has a girlfriend and three kids. He admits he needs someone around at all times. He tells them all what to do, orders them around, and they do his bidding for him happily and if they don't do what he says, he will godfather slap all of them. All of his friends and girlfriends have been b*tched slapped repeatedly by my brother if they dare talk out of turn to him. He runs everything. He is the King of his little world. He is a legend in his own mind. You would never believe that a situation like this existed unless you seen it with your very own eye balls. I know what you mean when you say this is not the little boy that I once knew and loved. Never in my wildest dreams would I have ever even imagined that he would turn out this way. It's TOO much to even try to comprehend. [/QUOTE]
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