A close friend of mine who has struggled with ADHD all his life recommended a book entitled "Driven to Distraction". It is written by two doctors who have ADHD. My friend stated that the book explained how he felt and thought and how his brain worked, better than he ever could. I read it and was amazed and learned so much. There are so many things that N does that I had NO idea were connected to the ADHD. (Now, of course, I feel like a terrible mommy for getting on to her for things that she really can't control!) I highly recommend this book for those of us dealing with ADHD kids or adults.