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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 754201" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>in my opinion I would not send him a letter of demands. That will just ramp things up and engage him and I have no doubt he will hurt you badly with his response.</p><p></p><p>I do not believe in a tit for a tat. I woud not answer. He deserves no answer. And to keep the drama to a minimum I would go silent. Your response would enrage him like a wild animal and you would hear him roar.</p><p></p><p>Do you want him to hurt you more?</p><p></p><p>If not,dont react to him. At all. If you answer him you know the fire will spread. You may get temporary satisfaction for giving him a piece of his own medicine. In the end you will probably sorry that you enticed the entitled lion to rattle his cage. He will hurt you worse. Much worse</p><p></p><p>in my opinion it is not worth the brief satisfaction. You will not change anything or teach him a lesson. You will inflame him to the stars and hear all about how awful YOU are. You will face abuse. He may even stop the counseling just to teach you a lesson.</p><p></p><p>Less is more. Less speaks louder. I would not send the letter.</p><p></p><p>Of course like always this is my opinion. Take what you like and leave the rest.</p><p></p><p>And may God sit on your shoulder during this trying time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 754201, member: 23706"] in my opinion I would not send him a letter of demands. That will just ramp things up and engage him and I have no doubt he will hurt you badly with his response. I do not believe in a tit for a tat. I woud not answer. He deserves no answer. And to keep the drama to a minimum I would go silent. Your response would enrage him like a wild animal and you would hear him roar. Do you want him to hurt you more? If not,dont react to him. At all. If you answer him you know the fire will spread. You may get temporary satisfaction for giving him a piece of his own medicine. In the end you will probably sorry that you enticed the entitled lion to rattle his cage. He will hurt you worse. Much worse in my opinion it is not worth the brief satisfaction. You will not change anything or teach him a lesson. You will inflame him to the stars and hear all about how awful YOU are. You will face abuse. He may even stop the counseling just to teach you a lesson. Less is more. Less speaks louder. I would not send the letter. Of course like always this is my opinion. Take what you like and leave the rest. And may God sit on your shoulder during this trying time. [/QUOTE]
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