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Ex's husband throws constant F bomb at son and threatens him over coat in front of grandson
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 726032" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Just like everything else in his life, my son, who truly loves his son to the moon and back, has a million reasons why he can't wire himself for drop offs. He was advised to do so at t he very start of the divorce and it is n ow six years later or so and he still can't do it, so he says. I know that people do record drop offs and anything to do with their ex's because false domestic abuse claims are common in divorce. But he just won't do it.</p><p></p><p>My son is not in danger of losing his 50% custody, but she did file (for the second time) for legal custody. I doubt she will get it this time either.</p><p></p><p>My son has issues, but his ex is truly a vacant person, dark and spiritually dead. My grandson often starts crying about how much he hates her and he is a very inward kid, not one to act out or have fits or tantrums. He is very guarded. But she does things like force him to ride his bike and back and forth in the hot Missouri summer heat to "try to make friends." He doesn't know anyone in her neighborhood because he doesn't go to school there. She chose to move there and now she wants to claim he has friends there so that the Judge will rule he can go to the school near her house. It won't happen, but she thinks it could and she literally will not let him back into the house until he was ridden his bike back and forth to try to find friends for long periods of time. She is smart enough to allow him water and pottying, but then he has to go out again until he makes friends. He is very shy, like my son was, and does not really make new friends well and isn't sure how to approach kids he doesn't know. This is just an example we heard about. He hates his bike so much that he told my son not to buy him one to use at his house. We know Mac hits him. As long as there is no mark there is nothing my son can do. J spends a lot of time at her house in his room being punished. He says sometimes he does it on purpose so he can be in his room and not with them. And he doesn't have to do much to get punished.</p><p></p><p>But the courts are 50/50 and don't really dig too deeply into the life of divorced children. They don't have the time, resources and maybe not the will. I don't know.</p><p></p><p>The situation with J is very frustrating. He is a very sweet boy who jumps if you talk too loud as if you are angry at him. He is quiet and needs to be prodded to loosen up. Hopefully his high intelligence will save him. He is known for being the smartest kid in his grade level. He gets some self esteem for that, but of course very smart kids get teased for being nerds too. So there is the downside.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 726032, member: 1550"] Just like everything else in his life, my son, who truly loves his son to the moon and back, has a million reasons why he can't wire himself for drop offs. He was advised to do so at t he very start of the divorce and it is n ow six years later or so and he still can't do it, so he says. I know that people do record drop offs and anything to do with their ex's because false domestic abuse claims are common in divorce. But he just won't do it. My son is not in danger of losing his 50% custody, but she did file (for the second time) for legal custody. I doubt she will get it this time either. My son has issues, but his ex is truly a vacant person, dark and spiritually dead. My grandson often starts crying about how much he hates her and he is a very inward kid, not one to act out or have fits or tantrums. He is very guarded. But she does things like force him to ride his bike and back and forth in the hot Missouri summer heat to "try to make friends." He doesn't know anyone in her neighborhood because he doesn't go to school there. She chose to move there and now she wants to claim he has friends there so that the Judge will rule he can go to the school near her house. It won't happen, but she thinks it could and she literally will not let him back into the house until he was ridden his bike back and forth to try to find friends for long periods of time. She is smart enough to allow him water and pottying, but then he has to go out again until he makes friends. He is very shy, like my son was, and does not really make new friends well and isn't sure how to approach kids he doesn't know. This is just an example we heard about. He hates his bike so much that he told my son not to buy him one to use at his house. We know Mac hits him. As long as there is no mark there is nothing my son can do. J spends a lot of time at her house in his room being punished. He says sometimes he does it on purpose so he can be in his room and not with them. And he doesn't have to do much to get punished. But the courts are 50/50 and don't really dig too deeply into the life of divorced children. They don't have the time, resources and maybe not the will. I don't know. The situation with J is very frustrating. He is a very sweet boy who jumps if you talk too loud as if you are angry at him. He is quiet and needs to be prodded to loosen up. Hopefully his high intelligence will save him. He is known for being the smartest kid in his grade level. He gets some self esteem for that, but of course very smart kids get teased for being nerds too. So there is the downside. [/QUOTE]
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