My ex is getting married in four days. I am so excited!! He invited my father and my brother. My brother is going, which is fine with me, I'm best friends with my ex-sister inlaw who is married to his oldest brother and we are very close, so whatever. My father felt torn and finally decided to call and tell him he feels it would be disrespectful to me for him to attend my ex's wedding, since like my father said, he caused all this to begin with!! I'm glad he's not going. His entire family and all of his friends know that he cheated on me, accused me of all kinds of stuff during the divorce and then for them to see my father there, I think they would be shocked to think he was supporting what he did. The funny thing is he's telling his mother that he can't sleep at night because he feels my boyfriend and I are enabling our son, which we are not doing, we are supporting his good choices, but I know he can't sleep because he's getting married to someone he said he'd never marry and it's all for $$$$$$$$$ If I was marrying someone I wasn't happy with, I don't think I'd be sleeping at night either I just hope he doesn't get cold feet the last minute and call it off, because somehow that would be my fault too!!