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Extreme aggressiveness, what happened in your case?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 654788" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If a child comes at you with a weapon, tries to choke you or tries to harm himself, he is too sick to live in a family. If there are other kids, it is on us, as parents, to make sure the younger ones are safe too.</p><p></p><p>I adopted a child who was eleven when he first came to us who ended up abusing my youngest two, who were five and seven. He was gone t he day we found out. Forever. I am not sorry. Our family healed and we are not sorry. You have to feel safe in your own house and nobody, no matter wh at age, has a right to hurt another human being.</p><p></p><p>The child who we adopted then asked to have leave, was charged by the county with sexual assault in the first degree and found guilty. He was thirteen. We never had anything to do with the charges and we never went to court...we never wanted to see him again...but we feel he got what he deserved. Unfortunately, it did not teach him a lesson. In his lock up for juvenile sexual offenders, where they have cameras everywhere 24/7, he was found following a kid around and trying to assault him. Another child expressed fear of him. Since he was legally still ours, we got reports. At least until the adoption was dissolved.</p><p></p><p>He never expressed remorse or even an understanding as to why he had done it other than, "I dunno." "I wanted to."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 654788, member: 1550"] If a child comes at you with a weapon, tries to choke you or tries to harm himself, he is too sick to live in a family. If there are other kids, it is on us, as parents, to make sure the younger ones are safe too. I adopted a child who was eleven when he first came to us who ended up abusing my youngest two, who were five and seven. He was gone t he day we found out. Forever. I am not sorry. Our family healed and we are not sorry. You have to feel safe in your own house and nobody, no matter wh at age, has a right to hurt another human being. The child who we adopted then asked to have leave, was charged by the county with sexual assault in the first degree and found guilty. He was thirteen. We never had anything to do with the charges and we never went to court...we never wanted to see him again...but we feel he got what he deserved. Unfortunately, it did not teach him a lesson. In his lock up for juvenile sexual offenders, where they have cameras everywhere 24/7, he was found following a kid around and trying to assault him. Another child expressed fear of him. Since he was legally still ours, we got reports. At least until the adoption was dissolved. He never expressed remorse or even an understanding as to why he had done it other than, "I dunno." "I wanted to." [/QUOTE]
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