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Extreme aggressiveness, what happened in your case?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 654906" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, I'd get as much help as possible since you don't have much time, but he may just have your ex-husband's genes. Hopefully not. It doesn't help that his father abused him. Still...the main thing is for everyone in the house to be safe and for him to be contained so he can't harm anybody, including pets. There are three symptoms that often lead to antisocial personality disorder in adults, we were told after our adopted son was escorted out the door for the last time: 1/Fascination with fire 2/inapproprite bedwetting or pooping 3/cruelty to animals (sometimes they hide this and are nice to animals to your face, but hurt them behind your back. Our antisocial adopted child killed two dogs, but we didn't think it was him because he acted like he loved them so much in front of us). Kids who are violent also sometimes are sexually inappropriate with other children at home and even in the neighborhood. You know if your son is sexually inappropriate...well, I shouldn't say that. WE didn't know. But it's possible. Keep the other k dis safe. That's #1. Hope this kid can get healthier. Some can, some can't. The bond with his father must have been very weak and damaged which could cause attachment disorder/issues and that can also cause all sorts of faulty wiring in the brain on top of very aggressive behavior and a lack of empathy toward others. He is certainly not headed in the right direction. Aggressive help has to be given now or you lose all ability to help him after he turns eighteen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 654906, member: 1550"] Well, I'd get as much help as possible since you don't have much time, but he may just have your ex-husband's genes. Hopefully not. It doesn't help that his father abused him. Still...the main thing is for everyone in the house to be safe and for him to be contained so he can't harm anybody, including pets. There are three symptoms that often lead to antisocial personality disorder in adults, we were told after our adopted son was escorted out the door for the last time: 1/Fascination with fire 2/inapproprite bedwetting or pooping 3/cruelty to animals (sometimes they hide this and are nice to animals to your face, but hurt them behind your back. Our antisocial adopted child killed two dogs, but we didn't think it was him because he acted like he loved them so much in front of us). Kids who are violent also sometimes are sexually inappropriate with other children at home and even in the neighborhood. You know if your son is sexually inappropriate...well, I shouldn't say that. WE didn't know. But it's possible. Keep the other k dis safe. That's #1. Hope this kid can get healthier. Some can, some can't. The bond with his father must have been very weak and damaged which could cause attachment disorder/issues and that can also cause all sorts of faulty wiring in the brain on top of very aggressive behavior and a lack of empathy toward others. He is certainly not headed in the right direction. Aggressive help has to be given now or you lose all ability to help him after he turns eighteen. [/QUOTE]
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