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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 643486" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I'm sorry you are hurting because of their actions.</p><p></p><p>It does hurt, when someone decides to detach from you. But you have to remember, that detaching is about them, not you. They are doing it for their own peace of mind, not because who you are. Your shared past, your interaction with them may cause them pain and chaos they do not want into their life. It is same as in your detachment from them. You are not detaching from them because they would be awful people but because your interaction causes you pain and drama.</p><p></p><p>Blocking someone from Fb is a bit like getting a restraining order, only you don't have to show a legit reason for it, but can do it just because you want to. But it is a clear message to blocked person, that they should not come closer or try to get around being blocked, so in there you made a mistake in using your husband's account to try to get around being blocked. But try to remember, that this is not about you, it is about their feelings and their point of view. They are doing this to have peace of mind for themselves, not to make you feel bad or because you would be a bad person. Not any more than in you detaching from them. Your interaction is toxic, but it doesn't mean any of you would be bad people, but to keep the peace and to avoid drama, you have just decided detach from each other. Or that at least is, how it looks to outsider.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 643486, member: 14557"] I'm sorry you are hurting because of their actions. It does hurt, when someone decides to detach from you. But you have to remember, that detaching is about them, not you. They are doing it for their own peace of mind, not because who you are. Your shared past, your interaction with them may cause them pain and chaos they do not want into their life. It is same as in your detachment from them. You are not detaching from them because they would be awful people but because your interaction causes you pain and drama. Blocking someone from Fb is a bit like getting a restraining order, only you don't have to show a legit reason for it, but can do it just because you want to. But it is a clear message to blocked person, that they should not come closer or try to get around being blocked, so in there you made a mistake in using your husband's account to try to get around being blocked. But try to remember, that this is not about you, it is about their feelings and their point of view. They are doing this to have peace of mind for themselves, not to make you feel bad or because you would be a bad person. Not any more than in you detaching from them. Your interaction is toxic, but it doesn't mean any of you would be bad people, but to keep the peace and to avoid drama, you have just decided detach from each other. Or that at least is, how it looks to outsider. [/QUOTE]
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