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<blockquote data-quote="UKMummy" data-source="post: 691746" data-attributes="member: 19939"><p>Last night was a family gathering for my niece,s 21st birthday. My Difficult Child lived with her mum, my sister for the last 2 years, he,s now in a shared house. </p><p>He and I go through regular periods of estrangement, his choice. We've been talking for a few months but he often arranges to come around then doesn't turn up. Last week he asked if I could make him dinner as he had no food, I said of course, made dinner and he didn't show. No text or call. </p><p>Anyway I knew he would be there last night, I worry about it but always put on a brave face. </p><p>I was extra extra nice to him, always am. We had a drink in a cocktail bar before the meal, I bought him his drink. When I went to the bar the second time I asked if he'd like another. He said no, he didn't like the beer but he'd have a tenner instead (£10.00) !!!!!!!!!!!!! </p><p>I actually couldn't believe my ears. This may sound such a small thing but really, who does that ????? </p><p>My son who has always had such a sense of entitlement to MY stuff. It makes me sooooooooo mad. Why do they think this is Ok?????</p><p>I actually just ignored him but that set the tone for the night.</p><p>I don't even like him anymore. And I know he can't stand me. I heard him make a joke later on about ' imagine how hard it is for me having to spend an evening with my mother'. Nobody laughed or commented. </p><p>I wanted to stand up and scream, imaging what it's like for me having YOU as a son, an ungrateful, rude, lazy, entitled s**t !!!! </p><p>I don't want to be around him anymore .......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="UKMummy, post: 691746, member: 19939"] Last night was a family gathering for my niece,s 21st birthday. My Difficult Child lived with her mum, my sister for the last 2 years, he,s now in a shared house. He and I go through regular periods of estrangement, his choice. We've been talking for a few months but he often arranges to come around then doesn't turn up. Last week he asked if I could make him dinner as he had no food, I said of course, made dinner and he didn't show. No text or call. Anyway I knew he would be there last night, I worry about it but always put on a brave face. I was extra extra nice to him, always am. We had a drink in a cocktail bar before the meal, I bought him his drink. When I went to the bar the second time I asked if he'd like another. He said no, he didn't like the beer but he'd have a tenner instead (£10.00) !!!!!!!!!!!!! I actually couldn't believe my ears. This may sound such a small thing but really, who does that ????? My son who has always had such a sense of entitlement to MY stuff. It makes me sooooooooo mad. Why do they think this is Ok????? I actually just ignored him but that set the tone for the night. I don't even like him anymore. And I know he can't stand me. I heard him make a joke later on about ' imagine how hard it is for me having to spend an evening with my mother'. Nobody laughed or commented. I wanted to stand up and scream, imaging what it's like for me having YOU as a son, an ungrateful, rude, lazy, entitled s**t !!!! I don't want to be around him anymore ....... [/QUOTE]
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