This is a continuation of the FOO thread why now thread that has been so big and is gaining more posters. It is for those who want to explosre their FOO and why we landed where we are. It is not just about our adult kids, but they are mentioned. It is really for anyone who wants to help heal by talking about their lives and by getting loving, kind and constructive feedback by some very smart ladies I know This is kind of a CD blog!!! Feel free to start where the other long thread left off. The other one was becoming slow because of all the content. Welcome to new users and readers.