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Family of Origin (FOO) Support Thread Part 2
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 662708" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>This is very wrong of them, Seeking.</p><p></p><p>Decency forbids it now, in this time when you need their strength to be strong enough, to make sense of things, to know what to do.</p><p></p><p>You are right. It does simplify things, but it hurts us in our hearts very much. As we have done our sharing here on the Foo Chronicles, it has been like, an iota of comfort to me to know the things that happen in my family, to me, are patterns that happen in every dysfunctional family. It is like when we first learned that our kids' behaviors were similar to the behaviors of other addicted kids, and let ourselves off the hook about that a little bit.</p><p></p><p>But it still is so hurtful to know they ~ to know. It is so hurtful a thing to see their behaviors, and know what that means, and to know they did it when our children were outrageously endangered and dangerous and we are so upset.</p><p></p><p>I could scream and cry for you Seeking. This is just what happened to me.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Well, I don't know what the answer is there Seeking or how to heal ourselves and come through it healthy and free of the hurt of it. But I do know each of us has the other's back, here on this thread. I am sorry this is happening to you, and I am glad you posted in; and somehow, we will get ourselves and one another through it.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/mcsmiley1.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":mcsmiley1:" title="mcsmiley1 :mcsmiley1:" data-shortname=":mcsmiley1:" /></p><p></p><p>This is the Conduct Disorders motorcycle I used while I was still not so sure what had happened to me or what it meant or what I wanted to do about it. It represents determination to move to a place of my choosing, to me. </p><p></p><p>In the saddlebag is a needlepoint "F You, Mom".</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>There is also an English country club library with good scotch and deep leather chairs and leaded glass windows in the saddlebag.</p><p></p><p>That is where we keep our criminal parents until we decide what to do with them.</p><p></p><p>Because we do love them after all, but we need to figure this out.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/starplucker.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":starplucker:" title="starplucker :starplucker:" data-shortname=":starplucker:" /></p><p></p><p>We will get through this, Seeking.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 662708, member: 17461"] This is very wrong of them, Seeking. Decency forbids it now, in this time when you need their strength to be strong enough, to make sense of things, to know what to do. You are right. It does simplify things, but it hurts us in our hearts very much. As we have done our sharing here on the Foo Chronicles, it has been like, an iota of comfort to me to know the things that happen in my family, to me, are patterns that happen in every dysfunctional family. It is like when we first learned that our kids' behaviors were similar to the behaviors of other addicted kids, and let ourselves off the hook about that a little bit. But it still is so hurtful to know they ~ to know. It is so hurtful a thing to see their behaviors, and know what that means, and to know they did it when our children were outrageously endangered and dangerous and we are so upset. I could scream and cry for you Seeking. This is just what happened to me. Well, I don't know what the answer is there Seeking or how to heal ourselves and come through it healthy and free of the hurt of it. But I do know each of us has the other's back, here on this thread. I am sorry this is happening to you, and I am glad you posted in; and somehow, we will get ourselves and one another through it. :mcsmiley1: This is the Conduct Disorders motorcycle I used while I was still not so sure what had happened to me or what it meant or what I wanted to do about it. It represents determination to move to a place of my choosing, to me. In the saddlebag is a needlepoint "F You, Mom". :O) There is also an English country club library with good scotch and deep leather chairs and leaded glass windows in the saddlebag. That is where we keep our criminal parents until we decide what to do with them. Because we do love them after all, but we need to figure this out. Cedar :starplucker: We will get through this, Seeking. [/QUOTE]
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