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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 661362" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I'm sure of this too, and I don't blame the grandparents. I'm not angry at all at my mother and father-in-law. Sad, yes. Heartbroken that they were frightened. I feel very badly for my father-in-law, whose families murders have been weighing heavily on his mind, making my son's outburst more frightening. That is just so sad. But while he doesn't scare us one bit, they have never seen him when he was throwing a tantrum and shouting and screaming. They are old and small and frail and I don't blame them for one second.</p><p></p><p>I just wish they would have called us if they were feeling that way. If they wanted him out and couldn't do it themselves, all they had to do was call. It hurts me that they didn't do that.</p><p></p><p>I don't blame my husband's siblings for wanting to protect their parents. They should. I blame them blind-siding us instead of even giving us a simple call, even if it were the night before, heck, even a few hours earlier so we could have handled it properly. I blame middle sis for telling us one thing and then doing another. It feels like she was being dishonest and frankly cruel.</p><p></p><p>When we dropped him off, he was okay. He still felt his aunts loved him. He still felt as though he has family...even if they were kicking him out and not helping him anymore. Now he doesn't. They hurt him, and that I have a problem with. </p><p></p><p>It's entirely with the handling, not the outcome.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 661362, member: 17309"] I'm sure of this too, and I don't blame the grandparents. I'm not angry at all at my mother and father-in-law. Sad, yes. Heartbroken that they were frightened. I feel very badly for my father-in-law, whose families murders have been weighing heavily on his mind, making my son's outburst more frightening. That is just so sad. But while he doesn't scare us one bit, they have never seen him when he was throwing a tantrum and shouting and screaming. They are old and small and frail and I don't blame them for one second. I just wish they would have called us if they were feeling that way. If they wanted him out and couldn't do it themselves, all they had to do was call. It hurts me that they didn't do that. I don't blame my husband's siblings for wanting to protect their parents. They should. I blame them blind-siding us instead of even giving us a simple call, even if it were the night before, heck, even a few hours earlier so we could have handled it properly. I blame middle sis for telling us one thing and then doing another. It feels like she was being dishonest and frankly cruel. When we dropped him off, he was okay. He still felt his aunts loved him. He still felt as though he has family...even if they were kicking him out and not helping him anymore. Now he doesn't. They hurt him, and that I have a problem with. It's entirely with the handling, not the outcome. [/QUOTE]
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