We are struggling with our 17 yr old son and I am so stressed! He has been smoking pot, cheating on his pregnant 17 year old girlfriend, and last night was arrested for curfew violation. I know that many kids are much worse off than him at this point, but things are spiraling out of control. He has dropped out of school and has run away several times. Moved out for a while, but came home when things started going awry with the friends he lived with. But, they were one source of pot and he has since reconnected with them. He refuses to help around the house or to get a job (because he won't pass the drug test). Our entire household is in chaos all the time and it's exhausting. My husband and I are working on setting up a house rules contract with all of our kids. I am starting to work 2nd shift this next week so that one of us will be at home at all times. Any suggestions or help is appreciated!